There are three levels of relationship.
1. A Conscious Level is how I relate to other people. I am conscious of how other people relate to me. Other people are a reflection of who I am and what I am attracting. I have a conscious relationship with people who I attract into my life. I relate on a conscious level with sensitive detachment.
2. A Sub-conscious level is how I relate to my ego Self. My ego is my sense of Self. I relate to my Self on a sub-conscious level until I learn to become aware of who I am. Being aware of the sub-conscious aspects of my emotional energy requires emotional intelligence, so that I can relate to my Self in an emotionally-rational way.
3. A Super-conscious level is how I relate to my Higher Self, my Soul. Communication with my Intuitive Guidance System requires a level of exclusive connection to my True Identity and the conscious-awareness of who I really am.
I relate in this physical world on all three levels of consciousness with varying degrees of conscious-awareness.