The Need to be Involved is the Need to be Included.
It is the need to be not excluded.
It is created by the fear of being rejected, being excluded, being unwanted and being alone.
It is based on a belief that we are all individuals that need each other for our own survival.
It creates my involvement in a roller coaster of continuous dramatic experiences in my life.
It will suck me into all sorts of dramas, many of which have nothing to do with me at all.
It is driven by my dependency on other people to supply my emotional energy needs, and the belief that:
“If I am not involved in what other people are doing, how are they going to meet my emotional needs for me?”
My Sensitive Detachment as a Participating Observer allows me to socialise with my peers and colleagues without the need to be involved and without the fear of being rejected or excluded.