The Boundaries of my Box are the standards of behaviour that I expect and find acceptable from other people.
What I find as acceptable behaviour from other people is what I am prepared to tolerate from them and not be intolerant of.
Just because I tolerate other people’s behaviour and I find it acceptable doesn’t mean that I am outside of my box. It means that I am comfortable within the boundaries of my box.
To be unconditionally accepting of the behaviour of all others requires me to be outside of my box.
To be outside of my box, the boundaries that define the walls of my box are required to disappear.
My boundaries are required to become unlimited and boundless so that they are all encompassing of every situation and occurrence in life.
It is not about removing my boundaries so that I am vulnerable and unprotected, it is about expanding and extending my boundaries until thay are no longer apparent and are able to accomodate whatever occurs in my life.
Once my boundaries are totally encompassing of everyone and everything in life, my box is no longer apparent and I am no longer imprisoned within it.