The Sexual Intensity of my emotional energy is determined by its gender.
Sexual energy is the inter-action of two vibrations of energy with opposing genders and a similar polarity.
It is the relationship of male & female energy inter-acting.
It is male & female energy relating in either a positive or a negative way determined by the experience of each individual.
A positive or a negative polarity is determined by the beliefs & thoughts of each individual.
The male or female gender is determined by the state of being of each partner.
It is the opposing genders of the same wavelength of vibration that are most attractive and therefore most sexually intense.
It is the gender of the relative energies that is relevant, not the sex of each partner.
Attraction is always a positive experience unless a negative belief determines it to be unattractive or even repulsive.