I am Kind to people who are like me. They are my kind of people and my friends.
I am Generous to those who share my genes. They are my relatives.
I am kind to my friends and generous to my relatives when I please them by giving them what I have and they want or need.
Kindness and generosity to others are conditional on them being friendly or related.
An act of kindness is an act of friendship. When I accept someone’s kindness, I am accepting their friendship.
An act of generosity is an act of relationship.When I accept someone’s generosity, I acknowledge our relationship.
In order for another to give me their kindness or their generosity, I have to be able to receive it.
When my friendship or my relationship is conditional on another’s kindness or generosity, it is not divine.
When I am accepting of another’s relationship or friendship unconditionally, neither kindness nor generosity are necessary.