Gender is a choice of perspective.
It is a choice of emotional perception.
It is realising a choice of experience as a mental perspective or an emotional perception.
It is actually a combination of both.
I may have a clear perspective or perception of my physical sex without an awareness of the gender of my energy vibration.
When I perceive my perspective with conscious-awareness, I see that my emotional energy has a choice of gender.
I can adopt the perspective of a masculine character with male emotional energy or I can adopt my perception of a feminine character with female emotional energy.
Alternatively, I can play the role of a feminine character with a male personality or I can play a masculine character with a female personality.
A choice of gender allows a definite range of possibilities of different personality & character in any role that I choose to act or play.
I play in life the character with a personality that I really believe myself to be.