Extreme Tolerance and Unconditional Love are not the same thing.
Many parents believe that they love their children unconditionally.
Most parents who choose to love their children unconditionally exhibit extreme tolerance.
Extreme tolerance allows me to love my children under extreme conditions.
Many believe that they would continue to give their emotional energy to their children to the point where it extinguished their own life.
In actuality we are not capable of dying for our children by loving them enough to die for them.
Being willing to die for our children is an act of extreme tolerance, not unconditional love.
There is always a point where tolerance becomes an extreme toleration and is no longer tolerable.
The condition on which we love our children is that it is tolerable.
Unconditional love requires the attainment of Acceptance & Forgiveness, not extreme tolerance.