Equability requires EQ Ability. EQ is my measure of Emotional Intelligence & Conscious-Awareness. With conscious-awareness my rational & my emotional intelligence have equal ability. The ability to act with equal ability is equability.
We all have choice and equability is a potential choice for everyone. Most people choose to measure their ability in competition with others. Seeking to be better than another or superior in any way to others, is not being equable and is not emotionally intelligent.
I can default to greed or pleasing others, being assertive or appeasing with others, complaisant or compliant with others, all of which is a statement of my inequality with others because of the absence of my equability.
With emotional intelligence, I choose a balanced emotional gender of equanimity. When my anima is equal to my animus, my emotional power is undivided by gender.
With conscious-awareness, I choose a neutral polarity of equality as the focus of my mental thoughts. Quality mental thoughts have a neutral polarity, which is undivided by personal judgmental beliefs or a negative perspective of thinking.
The equability of my physical actions is attained with the equanimity of my emotional perception and the equality of my mental perspective.
With equanimity, equality & equability, I choose the win-win experience of the Observer rather than the perspective of the competitor or spectator who often experience losing.