Argumentative is being in conflict with someone else’s perspective.
It is forcing my perspective in opposition to another’s perspective.
It is verbally declining another’s perspective in favour of my own.
Argumentative people need to be right and need others to see reality from their perspective.
Disagreeable is the ability to disagree.
I agree when I share another’s perspective.
I disagree when my perspective is different to another’s.
When I agree to allow others to see life from their own perspective, I agree to disagree.
I can disagree without being argumentative.
I agree that their perspective is their perspective and my perspective is my own, even though our perspectives disagree.
Being disagree-able allows me to say no without being in conflict and with no argument.