Sex is driven by the belief that we need someone else to make us feel whole.
The belief that I am not whole causes a need to be loved.
Love is misunderstood because gender is misunderstood.
Gender is misunderstood because emotional energy is misunderstood.
Our lack of emotional intelligence defines sex as a physical act and love as an emotional need.
With emotional intelligence we understand the gender of emotional energy.
We understand that sex & love are a duality of opposing genders of the energy that we see as our emotional needs.
When sex & love are divided, we will seek one or the other or both.
Both become the absence of Love and the need for Love.
The pure energy of Love is undivided by male or female gender.
The male need for sex is in opposition to but attracted to the female need for love.
Overcoming our emotional needs allows sex & love to reunite in holy communion and to never be in opposition again.