Pleasing someone means giving my emotional energy to providing what they want.
It is giving my power to their authority, which pleases them but does not please my Self.
Pleasing my Self may be seen as greedy by others, yet pleasing another allows them to be greedy.
People who are greedy for emotional power, in order to become better than others or superior (more powerful), need others to please them and yield to their higher authority (position of power or status).
Teasing means taking my emotional power from other people.
I tease emotional energy out of other people by embarrassing and humiliating them.
People who tease are greedy (needy) for emotional energy and will need to tease energy from people who do not readily please them.
‘I’m only teasing’ means I want to steal your energy because I’m greedy but I don’t want you to feel humbled and inferior to me because then I will appear to be arrogant, unfriendly, unpleasant and a bullying intimidator.