Conflict & Appeasement are opposing perspectives of the same energy.
They are both a response to someone else’s choice & authority.
When I am directed by the authority of someone else’s choice, I can disagree and be in conflict or I can tolerate it and appease it.
Appeasement is always a toleration.
Tolerating and appeasing the choice of another requires patience.
I become a patient of someone else’s intolerance.
Another’s intolerance is seen as their impatience, anger or wrath.
Tolerating another’s directive and wrath requires meekness.
Conflict & Appeasement; wrath & meekness; anger & patience are all different perceptions of the same duality of the authority of my emotional energy.
They are all emotional states of being experienced as the Control Drama of the Intimidator & the Poor Me.
They are also the states that authorise either our own Arrogance or our own Humbleness.
Allowing all others to follow their own paths, whilst remaining on my own path, puts me in a state of being in Benevolent Co-operation and overcomes all the above opposing states of dual reality.
Accepting someone else’s choice as being in agreement with my own requires neither conflict nor appeasement.